That’s kind of tricky- the Weasleys definitely have flaws, and what we know about Neville and his parents are pretty much all good things, but I think there are also other Longbottoms that aren’t the best

Aaaaahhhhh I can’t choose! Why do you do this?! /j

The Weasleys have so many flaws and I would rather be raised by grandma Longbottom than Molly and Arthur. Because neglect is, imo, worse than helicopter parenting. At least it is for me

As a family? The Weasleys. As a character? Neville

I choose the Weasleys as a family because I like how big and fun they are and they kinda remind me of my family