I don't understand why anyone says fiendfyre is more powerful because it's hard to control... we only ever see Grindelwald use Protego Diabolica, and he's arguably the second most skilled, powerful and talented wizard of his age, using the Elder wand. I seriously doubt it's any easier to control..
As for destructive power.. P.D was talked about in terms of destroying Paris... I really don't know if Fiendfyre has that sort of punch...